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My experience as mother with autistic child- Akande

Christiana Okpala by Christiana Okpala
August 7, 2017
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My experience as mother with autistic child- Akande

Mrs. Adedotun Akande

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Mrs. Adedotun Akande is a dynamic woman who strongly believes that there is ability in disability and that was perhaps the idea behind her establishing the first autism center in Nigeria over a decade ago  after her two years old son was diagnosed of autism.

Mrs. Akande left her banking job to establish Patrick Speech and Languages Center in Lagos not only to ensure that her son reach his maximum potential, but also  assist other parents with autistic children  who had nowhere to run to as  support system  medical, educational and social were lacking as at then.

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Speaking in an interview  with our  correspondent recently  in Lagos, Mrs. Akande who is a graduate of Economics from University of  Ado – Ekiti, said her journey into the world of autism and learning disabilities  has  positively  changed the  perception of many in Nigeria  with regards to autism.

She described autism as a complex developmental disabilities and added that experts believe that it presents itself during the first three years of a person’s life.

Mrs. Akande  further explained that the condition is as  a result of a disorder that has  effects  on normal  brain function, affecting the  development of a person’s  communication, that is both  verbal and non- verbal communication  and a wide range of social  interaction  skills  and behaviour.

Enumerating signs of an autistic child, she said it includes; inability to speak; jumping from one place to the other; clapping of hands;  no joint attention; looking at a  person or an  object with  one corner of the eyes; inability to answer  calls or question and a host of others.

My experience as mother with autistic child- AkandeMy experience as mother with autistic child- Akande

 

She stressed the need for parents especially mothers to monitor their children closely as early dictation leads to early intervention.

In her words, “The problem is that most mothers  do not seek intervention for  their autistic children  until  when  they have grown  up  and by that time it would be difficult to effect  positive changes in their behaviour, but when they come to us  at the age of two or three, they may not stay  longer in the center before one will start observing positive changes in their behaviour and within the shortest time they will be enrolled  in the mainstream schools where they will learn and interact with  other children.”

She frowned at parents who hide their autistic children at home without exposing them to any form of education.

My experience as mother with autistic child- Akande
Mrs. Adedotun Akande

 

“It is wrong to keep your autistic child at home because when they are enclosed in a particular environment, their behavioural challenges become worst, but when they come out and  are engaged  with other things, it  affects their  behaviour positively. They are unique children in their strength. One needs to discover where their strength is and use it to teach them, some may like music, while others like dancing and can dance from morning till night without  caring  for  food.  For those that like music, one can use music in teaching them.  There is beauty in each of them, some of them are so warm.

“So, it is not ideal to hide an autistic child at home, even if you cannot afford the cost of enrolling him or her in a private center, there are inclusive units in public schools were you can register such a child early so that he or she can reach his or her maximum potential.

 “When my son was diagnosed of autism, there was nowhere to run to because as at then, there was no center that takes care of such children. l found a speech therapist to work with him three days  a week, l taught him all the other skills needed, with  the help of  his school teacher. Slowly over a period of six years, combined with music therapy, he emerged from his shell a mathematics genius,” she added.

On the center, she said it was not easy at the onset as there was little or no research on autism in Nigeria as at that time.

“For every staff l came in contact with, nobody had knowledge of what autism is all about, having obtained a Diploma in Applied Behavioral Analysis from Florida Institute of Technology in the United States, l trained them and we have train the trainers programmes.  Along the line, we saw the need not only to train the staff, but also the parents and the public on the values and the best practices in autism. Now, there are many centers in Nigeria that came after us and most of them passed through our guidance,” she submitted.

According to her, one of the key challenges facing the center is the inability of parents to pay their subsidized fees.

She said: “Many people will rather spend millions to train a neuro-typical child than a child with developmental challenges. We have had to find ways to raise funds to support these families. Sometimes  it is difficult  to convince  families to stay in therapy  due  to the fact  that we  cannot give specific  time that their children will  graduate  from our center. When they see a little progress in the child, all they want to do is to send the child to mainstream school even when we can see clearly that the child is not ready.”

However, she stressed the need for parents to be patient  when they enroll  their wards  in  special centers, saying that parents who were involved and exercised  patience with the therapy  had  reaped the fruit as there  has been seamless integration  of their  children into mainstream  school.

On the other hand, she appealed to government at all levels to come to the aid of private  special homes by providing  them with  educational  facilities  such as sites  to build  centers, while adding that such assistance would go a long way in helping them to  adequately cater for the needs of children with disabilities in the country.

It is interesting to note  that Mrs. Akande’s deep involvement with Autism Awareness activism in Nigeria has resulted in such short films, ‘Silverlining’ which bagged an award from Nigerian film festival in 20l1. Her current film ‘Demystifying Autism’ had been nominated for the AFRIFF Awards best short film 2015.

Akande is also the ‘Vlisco Woman of the year 2015’, an honour bestowed on her for the contributions  she has made to the growth of autism awareness and treatment in Nigeria.

So far, she and her team have successfully worked with and integrated over 40 children into mainstream school system even as she plans a new school facility that can accommodate and help more children and families.

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